"Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop & look around once in a while...you could miss it."
Wednesday, January 1, 2025
Thursday, January 4, 2024
Happy 2024!
Friday, January 6, 2023
Happy New Year!
It's 2023!!!!!
How quickly the years pass us by especially when you're still raising kids in your fifties! What a life! I love that all our years are imperfect and that we are who we are. Just us. Living life each day and managing whatever the universe throws at us. I personally don't feel the need to change but to only do better with how I view myself and others. To love and to simply be kind. To not hold grudges and to just live each day to the fullest. Appreciate our loved ones and never take anything for granted. 2022- like all other years have been quite interesting but so thankful to wake up each day and to still be breathing. To have survived another year. And that in itself is a miracle my friends! Cheers to 2023 y'all! Let's make it another great and imperfect one!
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
My Wish For 2022...
The best part of getting older is knowing your worth and identity. Especially at the age of 50. Embracing it and loving every thing about it. Grey hairs and all! Picking back up the pieces of ourselves that we left behind that helped us find our way through our journey in this life. It’s never ending....
Monday, January 10, 2022
Walking Into 2022 Like...
Happy 2022 from the big apple!
As you can see I am welcoming the new year on the 10th of January and Here’s hoping the first week of the new year had good vibes only. I personally want to focus more on my family in real time and in person than being online. Even though I feel I don't blog or post as much I still want to document the good things and eventually make my blog into some kind of memoir before I die! I want my kids to know that I always thought and wrote about them and our small adventures. The new year is definitely going to bring a lot of change to many people especially with all that's going on in the world. I really want to focus on the positive and just be happy and chill no matter what the world brings and where life takes us. So happy new year to you! And to all that continue to hop on here every now and then...thank you for reading. Good vibes only this year y'all! xo
Wednesday, January 13, 2021
Goodbye 2020, Hello 2021!
13 days into the new year and I'm now saying goodbye to 2020 and hello to 2021. Unfortunately this will be another pandemic year. Not too much has happened since the new year began except for zoom school resuming again. I still get my days mixed up but somehow still find a way to balance on how to deal with life and kids each day. One day at a time right? On thing that gets me through it all is my faith in God and not taking the little things for granted. I know I have learned a lot this past year. For example, not being afraid of the unknown. Not sheltering myself from the outside world. Having a husband who is a city driver for UPS helped me become fearless and somewhat jaded in ways where I was not thinking too much about Covid. I know it's still here and every time we'd go out we are careful and extremely cautious of our surroundings as to who we associate with within six feet. But to be honest, 2020 wasn't so bad to our family. We learned to face the pandemic and found ways to serve one another. Even when the kids started zoom school.
Thursday, January 2, 2020
Welcome To The 2020s!
Tuesday, January 1, 2019
Happy 2019!
Monday, January 1, 2018
Remembering 2017 & A Happy New Year To You!
Friday, January 6, 2017
A New Year, The Same Me, But Better.
Thursday, December 31, 2015
And So Goes 2015.
On the day before Christmas eve I was buying some last minute items for Christmas dinner at Walmart (don't judge.) I went early in the morning which was nice because there were no lines. Thing is I had exactly 20 items, and the only lines that were available were those registers. I decided to get in line when all of a sudden stood three people behind me carrying only one item. I let them go ahead of me. You should have seen the look on their faces. Their faces were so shocking, and in that moment I felt both happy and sad. Happy because even though they looked shocked, they seemed to be uplifted, and sad because it makes me wonder how often have they had a kind gesture given to them.
When the other line next to me opened up I saw a little old man probably around 70 years old standing in line waiting as more people rushed in front of him. The last person I allowed go ahead of me was being rung up so I mumbled under my breath, "what the heck." I offered if he would like to go in my line since he only had a couple of items. He said no thank you, and luckily the lady in front of him only had a few times. It was then when I overheard him telling the cashier how kind I was to offer him to go in front as well as the people I let go ahead of me. They both mentioned how no one rarely does that anymore, and the cashier in particular who works there emphasized how they need more kind customers like that woman (me.) It made me feel good inside knowing that they acknowledged my kindness, and even though one of the customers I allowed to go ahead of me didn't say thank you (i still think he was in major shock that I let him in before me) it didn't bother me in the least. I'm sure eventually someday he'll remember what this kind lady (me) did for him at one point, and hopefully he'll somehow pay it forward.
I'm sure there are plenty of good folk out there doing random acts of kindness, and if you are one of them please don't stop. I can't even begin to describe the feeling I get when I do something nice for someone, and when they see that the looks on their faces are priceless. Shocking and priceless, and I know that it is uplifting to them. It was such a joy to have seen the smiles on those three strangers regardless of their overwhelming reaction.
My hope for the new year is for the world to be more kinder and gentler. It's up to us to make that change, and to strive to do better. It is my hope that as a family we can do all things that keep us in good spirits, and always putting the Lord first. To always have that unique light shining upon us so that others can stop, and ask, "what is it that makes you so different", or "why is it that even in the hardest of times you always look at your life in a positive manner." Those are the things I want people to ask so I can let them know that because of the faith I have in God is how I get through his thing called life.
XXXOOO








