Sno-cones & ice cream are a favorite of hers and we shared one with her. The kids laughed with her every time she said something funny. She can be a comic at times, and that is one thing I hope doesn't go away too soon.
There were times when she constantly repeated the same questions to me over & over again when I was with her I didn’t mind. It didn’t really bother me too much, but instead of letting it get the best of me, I'd respond with a smile, and just answer her again. I am still amazed at what the spirit of The Lord can give you at times like this and for me it was patience and unconditional love. The guiding hand of God is true folks!
In those few days I was also taught to find the “light” & positivity of her situation. To not grow impatient with her or get annoyed. To not think the worst of her condition but instead to have compassion & understanding. To let her know that she’s safe and has what she needs at that moment. Patience is required, but TIME and LOVE is what’s most important. And I wish I had more time to spend with her.
The day before we left we managed to get her outside and take her to the place she loves the most. The ocean. She loves the ocean air and as much as doesn't mind wind she hates the fact that it blows her hair all over the place! I also have no idea why Jon is laughing in this photo, but it's a good one!
Adding in a bit of history in this post about the USS Lexington since it's now based in Corpus. The boys managed to go to the museum and I captured a couple of photos. It's just as I remembered when it was stationed in Pensacola back in the 90's. Same huge ship!
Time will tell and we will see what the future brings for my momma. For now she's on her own living in her little apartment doing the best she can to take care of herself, and I am most grateful for her to have a caregiver by her side to help her with her needs everyday. She has also made a few friends in the place she lives. Being a "long distance caregiver" via phone is not easy. I call her as much as I can. We write to her every week. She has her good days and bad days and when I call her on a bad day she's always uplifted. For the moment that's all I can do and hope to do more for her in the future.
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